Our 11th wedding anniversary is tommorrow, so I washed the dishes tonight.  Last time was sometime last year.  Hey, we might be Americans, but our marriage is Korean.  Still, I try my best to knock the hard edges off male chauvinistic behaviors.  So I did the dishes tonight.  Tommorrow, I am cooking and my son is washing the dishes.  I am sure my future daughter-in-law will thank me for this.