I wished for a 'tomato mail' icon and, voila!, Gary Secondino created .  Thanks Gary!  Isn't blogging great?  You can find .png, .jpg, and .gif versions here.
After a bit of resizing and fussing over, I got this .  Woohoo!

Why the tomato?  It means I don't mind if you throw tomatos at me.  I love tomatos!