Even when online social networks becomes common place, nothing much has changed in the way people meet each other. One could even say social network is degraded somewhat by people hunting people they want to meet by following the visual map of relationships made possible by social network services.
One can imagine Power Law working at multiple levels to route attention to people with the right look, positions, professions, money, and connections. Play forward a bit and one could see how the popular nodes becoming ragged pretty fast.
If a girl looks great, she'll get a lot of wannabe friends who ponied up money for the chance to say hello. Even with traffic control of sort, she will eventually feel like a dumb whore, dumb because she ain't getting paid for her troubles. Profit sharing is not a solution because that just leads to world-wide whore, sorry, dating networks.
If it's some business person in a key position like CostCo Executive VP of Purchasing, same thing happens except there is a different kind of wink-wink-nudge-nudge going on. Social connections based on one-sided needs is not a social network IMHO and unstable by nature. Over time, these networks will be sapped dry of valuable nodes, leaving behind only a network of predators.
As I mentioned before in my posts about the value of random encounters, new solutions are needed. Game of Seven is one example. The Game of Seven forms a random group of seven people that lasts a month as if seven random people got stranded on a deserted island. One could run into great, mundane, or even terrible people.
You can sell individual Game of Seven too just like packs of Pokeymon or Yu-Ki-Oh cards. You'll never know what you are going to get. Maybe you'll meet the girl of your life. Maybe you'll end up changing your definition of an a**hole. The unknown is the product being sold.
To spice things up, each Game of Seven should be given a task to perform. Result affects individual participant's stats that has some consequences. If one acts like an asshole consistently, his stats should reduce his chance of meeting people with good stats.
Frankly, I have no idea whether solutions like the Game of Seven will work. I am just using it as an example of possible solutions.


